getting back together, trying to keep the bridges unburned
So after a night of much needed drinking i've got a bit of a hangover. i work at three so i don't have much time to recover nor study. i didnt end up studying yesterday after all. Oh well, eventually i'll feel the pressure and get down to it. Work last saturday was pretty slow so today shoudl be slow as well. For some reason people don't seem to be too excited about coffee in the winter. and then they bring back 'roll-up the rim' in february or march to get people coming back. i hate roll up the rim.
Would it be bad getting back with the boy? i'm wondering if things would change. i guess i need time to think and i guess i could try again but i need to figure things out, i need to learn how to be more open and let him know what's bothering me. if i truely didn't care about him then should it be this hard? i don't know how long i have to wait, but if i don't know if i can go until new years without him. i lived before without a bf. i should be able to do it again. i guess i'm just entering this posting to let him know how i'm feeling, it's really hard to actually say how i'm feeling. i'm not thinking straight now. exam time was a really bad time to break it off, christmas would have been worse.
posted by ~ martha ~ at 2:05 p.m.
1 Comments:
Hey
I'm responding to your first question - should I get back together with him? Answer - no
And your second question - would things change? Answer again - no
Why, you ask?? Because he is a liar. He lied to you from the second he met you.
He lied when he said he was single.
He lied when he said he was a full-time teacher.
He lied when he said he drove a Jetta.
That was all on your first date.
Then he lied when he said he had to take out the garbage and came back an hour later.
And finally, he lied when he said this was one relationship that he thought was going to go somewhere. That was intended to make you feel guilty. You said he was happier with his other girlfriends and he probably told all of them the same thing.
Lying is unacceptable in general and completely out of place in a relationship. A good relationship is built on trust. He has not proven himself to be trustworthy. He will not change. People don't change.
Since I've read your other blogs I see that my response is too late. I pray that you will see the light.
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